By AMANDA PELL
COLUMNIST
I am a woman. I am registered as a Democrat, and most of my opinions are relatively liberal, but I identify as an Independent and am completely willing to cross partisan lines on an issue-by-issue basis. I am a strong advocate for female reproductive rights and a woman’s right to choose. By the accepted terminology, this makes me “pro-choice.” To suggest that this makes me “anti-life,” however, would be patently untrue.
Do I support the pro-choice movement? Yes. I strongly believe a woman should have the ability to receive an abortion, should she choose it.
Does that mean that I’m not “pro-life”? No. I also believe that, should a woman find herself with an unexpected pregnancy and a desire to keep the child, she should have access to the resources necessary to provide that child with a life worth living.
What am I against, then? I am vehemently against placing a pregnant woman in a position where she cannot terminate her pregnancy but also cannot find the resources necessary to support herself and the child. I am against bringing a child into the world destined to suffer the lowest quality of life without hope of improvement.
With that in mind, I’m suggesting a new question: Where do we stand on quality of life? Somehow, the discussion never makes it that far. We argue for the child’s birth, then forget about them when they begin to live. Consider this quote by Sr. Joan Chittister: “I do not believe that just because you’re opposed to abortion, that that makes you pro-life. In fact, I think in many cases, your morality is deeply lacking if all you want is a child born but not a child fed, not a child educated, not a child housed. And why would I think that you don’t? Because you don’t want any tax money to go there. That’s not pro-life. That’s pro-birth. We need a much broader conversation on what the morality of pro-life is.”
It’s time for us to broaden the terminology that surrounds the abortion issue. I am pro-life and pro-choice. I’m also pro-quality-of-life, and that absolutely includes mothers.
According to Egyptian medical records, the earliest recorded abortion occurred in 1550 B.C.E.
Eliminating the legal possibility in America will not end a 3,000-year-old practice; it will only eliminate the safe option. Similarly, the elimination of contraception, or the obstruction of women’s ability to obtain it, will serve to place more women in the difficult position of having to consider an abortion and/or bring more unsupported children into the world.
I am not anti-life, quite the opposite. I am a woman, and I advocate for the support of the quality of the lives of women and their children. I am pro-choice and pro-life, and I will not apologize for my beliefs or your inability to understand them.
M • Feb 21, 2013 at 9:55 pm
Interesting thoughts and a well-written article but there are holes in this argument. I think the article oversimplifies the issue and relies too heavily on stereotypes of anti-abortion pro-lifers. First, you bring up the quality of life argument. I would like to ask then, what do you propose as the quality that allows some to be born and others to not be born? By your definition, is the unborn baby with Down Syndrome allowed to live for example because her condition is incurable and immobile? What about the unborn with cerebral palsy because it seems like his condition is immobile too? What about the unborn in the womb of a twenty-year old mother without money, education, a job, and support from a family that has cursed her? If you say these people should not be born, can you really be pro-life at all based on your terms, or are you pro-abortion? Likewise, if our government had legislation based on the quality of life argument, I would not be commenting right now because I was born to that twenty-year old. You might not be typing at the Macbook you might have because Steve Jobs would not have been born. You might not have had as many laughs because Jack Nicholson would not have been born either. And you might not have as many friends because millions of others that would not been born either. Can the quality of life argument ever be used at all? Who has the authority in saying one person deserves to be born and another does not? I agree with you that pro-lifers must rally for resources and provide women with them; however, I would like to note that there are thousands of centers for resources and support for women across the country. Anti-abortion pro-lifers are not just concerned with only the birth of babies. The Sisters of Life for example have houses within walking distances from both the Rose Hill and Lincoln Center campuses. You talk about reassessment of the terms pro-life and pro-choice, but I think you first need to rid the stereotypes you assume of anti-abortion pro-lifers besides just ridding those of the pro-choice side. Being anti-abortion, anti-women, and uncaring of the welfare of individuals after birth are not one and the same, neither do pro-abortion rights and pro-women go hand-in-hand. There are after all women in the pro-life movement, there are even several organizations for feminists as such as Feminists for Life!
jakeks19 • Feb 21, 2013 at 4:20 pm
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/10/28/opinion/sunday/friedman-why-i-am-pro-life.html?_r=0
A very similar take…nice work