“Courage. Compassion. Kindness. Friendship. Character. These are the qualities that define us as human beings, and propel us, on occasion, to greatness.” -R.J. Palacio
I read “Wonder” for the first time when I was a fourth grader at Parkway School in Greenwich, Connecticut. I vividly remember sitting on the swings at recess with my friends as we all flipped through the pages of our bright blue books. In 2014, everyone was reading it, and as a book lover myself, I was eager to dive right into the novel that everyone was raving about. Ever since then, I have been captivated by this quote. I love it, and am honored to have it welded to my high school experience at Convent of the Sacred Heart as my senior yearbook quote. Its bluntness is so powerful and encapsulatory of the traits that truly define who we are.
R.J. Palacio’s novel “Wonder” is one of the most successful children’s book as a New York Times #1 bestseller with over 15 million copies sold across the globe, dominating the charts for over 450 weeks. Known for its lessons about growing up and being kind, the book touches the heart of each reader. In 2012, when it was published, “the book’s message inspired the Choose Kindness movement and has been embraced by readers around the world, with the book published in over 55 languages.” This project focuses on “bullying prevention, intentional inclusion and youth mental wellness,” while reminding youth of the importance of loving themselves.
Just five years after the novel was released, “Wonder” was made into a movie starring Owen Wilson, Julia Roberts and Jacob Tremblay. Set in New York City, the movie is loyal to the novel, showcasing the “incredibly inspiring and heartwarming story of August Pullman, a boy with facial differences who enters the fifth grade, attending a mainstream elementary school for the first time.” It is rare to find a film adaptation that is just as good as the text itself, and “Wonder” really is that great. The actors are phenomenal, the sets are so realistic and the emotions evoked about how overwhelming childhood can feel is so authentic.
The protagonist August, also known as “Auggie,” is a true beacon of courage, compassion, kindness, friendship and character. He valiantly overcomes any obstacle he encounters while radiating with positivity. A true ray of sunshine, he resiliently marches through life despite the cruel bullying of others.
No matter what age you are, this book will resonate with you. Although this novel is meant for elementary and middle school students, everyone can take away something meaningful from it. This story is so moving because it is unafraid to show how destructive childhood bullying can be, while emphasizing the power of treating people with kindness. The lessons about treating others with respect and compassion, while moving forward with courage and character, are reminders that we all need.
As Thanksgiving approaches, and in the climate of our world, it is crucial to emphasize the importance of treating others with kindness and respect. No matter how small the action may be, no matter how old we get or how stressful life becomes, we must remember that kindness is what propels us to greatness.
Not only does this book remind you to be kind to others, but it also reminds you to be kind to yourself. Having the courage to take the time to do what makes you happy is of the utmost importance. I hope everyone in the Fordham University community can take some time to rest and relax during the upcoming break, and hopefully enjoy this incredible story.













































































































































































































Cornelia Callaghan • Nov 24, 2025 at 1:43 pm
Thank you Mary for your beautiful words during this hectic time ! Loved the book, need to see the movie and loved your article ! Thank you for bringing people’s attention to this !